You Can Save Your Relationship. . . Even if you have lost all hope!
Are you in a constant power struggle with your partner—arguing more than connecting?
Is your marriage crumbling due to an affair, separation, or lack of loving connection?
Do you look over at your spouse and wonder where the excitement and deep love went?
Then this Urgent Marriage Repair Challenge is for you!
Like hundreds of other couples, you too can make a turnaround in your marriage.
This Challenge Is Right For You If You're...
Considering separation or divorce
Trying to make it work and your spouse has checked out
Struggling to survive an affair
Feeling "not in love" and have grown apart
Tired of fighting about everything
Unhappy in your marriage
This is a four hours no-non-sense live virtual intensive experience with Dr. Ada. There is also a face-to-face option that can be a half-day or one-day option. It's a combination of exploring your negative patterns of relating, "first aid" measures, extreme personal responsibility commitment, positive connection challenge, and visioning. It's perfect for a quick turn around that will fill you with hope and create the perfect foundation for making wise decisions about your next steps.
I understand your fears, struggles, and hesitations. You are in a very negative place right now. But I'm convinced that . . .
. . . You deserve better! Extraordinary Relationship Happiness is possible!
To get there, you both need to:
Embrace a total commitment to transforming your relationship by leaving your hesitation behind, letting go of the need for control, and welcoming in a new level of connection.
Stop tearing each other down and allow for more pleasure in your lives by focusing your energy and intention into creating positivity, connection, and intimacy.
Get a clear vision of where you are now, where you want to be, what’s been stopping you, and how to get there.
No matter if. . .
You have "tried everything" and nothing seems to work anymore;
You have read many self-help books and listened to podcasts but can't find a way to apply it;
Have seek advice from friends, family, counselors, even your pastor, but can't get out of the negative spiral you have fallen into and fear your relationship might be over;
You’re in the right place! There is hope and I want to help you turn around your relationship.
I know you are tired of struggling and want to recapture and develop the intimate, happy relationship of your dreams. You have good intentions. You want to save your marriage, and you are desperately looking for the right kind of help.
You have tried on your own to dissolve the entanglements and release the negativity. Yet, the transition back to love is hard, and you’re exhausted and feeling as if your energy is being wasted on trying to save your relationship. You feel spent instead of passionately in love. You have been talking about divorce and are almost ready to go see a lawyer. Every day leaves you wondering: “Where did our love go?
The problem is many people, even trained professionals, mean well, but don't have the correct training in helping people in crisis situations. Therefore, when the situation is too overwhelming for them to understand, they tell you that there is no hope.
But you need to know that they are wrong. There is hope.
This turnaround challenge is the catalyst your marriage needs to start changing and transform into a happy, strong, loving relationship.
You don't have to do this alone!
I have extraordinary training and experience. For over 30 years, I have been helping thousands of people save their marriages from many different situations, such as:
Loss of Connection
Lack of Communication
For all of these and other situations, there is help and there is hope. But you have to understand what happened, how to fix it, and how to do things differently.
I would like to help you save your marriage.
I have an MA in Developmental Psychology, post-graduate training as a Marriage and Family Therapist, and am licensed as such in the State of Delaware. I also have a PhD in Interdisciplinary Studies, with emphasis on coaching, change, and dialogue. I’m committed to helping couples learn how to have Transformative Conversations® that turn around their relationship. By going through this challenge, arguing is eliminated, connection is re-established, and the couple goes out of crisis mode so that passion and intimacy can increase. By learning a different way of talking and relating, you will see power struggles and fear stop and you will start to trust again.
I use methods rooted in human development, spirituality, and psychology. I share proven old and new techniques from the field of marriage and relationship therapy, biblical wisdom, and the new field of brain neuropsychology. After building a marriage and life my partner and I love, I now support my clients to transform their own relationships from crisis and negativity into one of clear communication, loving connection, and faithful commitment.
How does a virtual challenge work?
You can attend The Urgent Marriage Repair Challenge in person at my place, or you can join online on a platform that lets you participate live, from wherever you are. You can even choose if you want to be "seen" or if you prefer to attend anonymously. You will get all the details you need after you register. And it's a very simple process. The content of the challenge is a blend of tried and true scientific research as well as the best techniques that have actually been implemented into the lives of thousands of couples. It uses evidence-based techniques that work when people are in crisis.
In just 4 hours, you will learn and be equipped with tools that actually work in marriages facing crisis. These tools have been fine-tuned over 30 years working with real marriages in real crisis and desperate situations. The tools I will share have also been validated by the best research on what makes a strong marriage work.
Instead of spending months in counseling or even weeks scouring the internet, reading books, or seeking advice from people who are not trained, you can spend 4 hours learning new ways to relate that will completely change the future of your marriage.
At the Urgent Repair Challenge I create a safe space for you to interact in a productive way. The focus will be in understanding patterns, learning to relate in positive ways, and on the future. I'll teach you how you can identify what happened in the past and how to move on to new understandings and positive actions.
What Does The Urgent Repair Challenge Cover?
We cover a lot of basic material to help you get out of crisis. Here are some brief highlights of what you will experience:
The neuroscience of love: How the chemicals in your brain interact with your feelings of love and connection. You will learn how to mix the right "brain cocktail" for getting yourself out of crisis and into experiencing love again. You will understand how people fall out of love and how they can fall in love again. If an affair has affected your marriage, we will also cover how affairs happen, what is needed for an affair to end, and how to "affair proof" your marriage.
Tools to deal with conflict: You will receive the guidelines you need to transform the way that you and your spouse communicate. You will learn how to resolve conflict so that both of you can be winners!
Clarity and peace: Some people who attend the challenge are trying to decide whether or not they want to save their marriage. During our time together, you will learn what you need to know so that you can have peace about whatever decision you make moving forward.
From negativity to positivity: You will find out how negativity affects yourself and your marriage and how to jumpstart the positivity circuit to create a different heart-connection energy in your relationship.
Leave with new hope and a new plan for going forward: At the end of the Urgent Repair Challenge, you will have a game plan for how to move forward with your marriage. You will understand more about yourself and your partner, and you will have new hope for the future. You will be able to bring back the romance!
There is much more that could be covered, but this 4 hours challenge is an emergency procedure to help you turnaround your marriage from crisis to a positive path of hope and love. Not only will the way you interact with your spouse change for the better (no matter what happens going forward) but you will regain self-respect and confidence in God's plans for yourself.
I respect everyone. I promise I won't judge you for whatever happened that led to your marriage crisis. I'm more interested in helping you find your way out of your current crisis.
By attending the Urgent Repair Challenge you'll learn how to stop the pain and get back on track
I've surveyed hundreds of couples and their most common causes for crisis include difficulties with communication, needing more time together, fighting, and wanting to be more connected and affectionate in their marriage. On top of these, many couples are afraid of their partner having an affair or have already been impacted by infidelity. That's why the Urgent Repair Challenge teaches you how to heal from pain and have the happy, thriving marriage you desire.
What the Urgent Marriage Repair Challenge Includes
The Urgent Marriage Repair Challenge is a proven step-by-step 4 hours virtual challenge live with Dr. Ada. It is designed as an emergency intervention to coach you into turning around your marriage from conflict and despair into a connected and happy relationship. The Challenge can even help if only one spouse follows it. This is a first-of-it's-kind virtual crisis intervention solution where you can participate in the challenge from your computer in the privacy of your own home. This program focuses on the key skills and information that when applied will quickly turn around your marriage.
The Challenge includes:
A high end half day live personal education and relationship coaching with Dr. Ada.
Skills and concepts to take you out of crisis and back to clarity and hope so that you can fall back in love, rekindle the passion and save your marriage. (if that is what you decide you want) or find an amicable and collaborative way to separate and move on. ($999.00 Value)
2 Easy Exercises to help you calm down and feel connected again ($75.00 Value)
Practical positive steps to take each day sent to you by email for the next 21 days to get you back to positivity ($49.00 Value)
"Do's and don'ts of communication" to see results right away ($29.00 Value)
One booklet and audio: Calming your inner turmoil ($49.00 value). Contains instructions and guided meditations for calming yourself and your emotions in any situation.
My Urgent Repair Challenge is unique because it teaches key skills that are focused, impactful, and proven to quickly have a dramatic effect on dealing with your crisis. Give me a call to find out which modality of the program first you best and what special price we can offer you. By teaching these skills and concepts I have helped hundreds of couples in my practice. I can help you, too! Just schedule an appointment to register for the next available Challenge. You will see in my calendar what what are my available times for an appointment.
***The results of attending the virtual or in-person Urgent Marriage Repair Challenge will vary depending on your commitment to take positive action, your follow through, and your decisions. I can only guarantee that at the end of our time together you will have a clear path to follow, a calmer way to interact, and a much better chance at love and success.